Why Life Groups? 


Life Groups exist so that we can "live together." It is the process of building a community that glorifies God in every aspect of life through making disciples who make disciples. So if you want to grow in your walk with God and better worship Him with your life, then come join one of our life groups. Our life groups take on the personalities of the people that compose them. They can look like a Bible study in someones living room with snacks and drinks or a group of grown men playing basketball and studying scripture at the end. Some people call these "traditional life groups" and "affinity groups." Whatever you call them makes no difference. They both serve the same purpose. Life together to glorify God through making disciples who make disciples.


Life Group Scheduling:

We have trimesters therefore you can join and switch Life Groups throughout the year. This will allow us to spend the whole year investing our lives into the lives of others in our church and community. 

Winter Trimester - January - March.   

Summer Trimester - May - July.

Fall Trimester -  September - November. 

Registration Months- December, April, and August. If you are a part of a Life Group and would like to experience another one then you can do so during these registration months.

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Life group Information:

If you have any desire to be a Life Group leader or have an idea for an Affinity Life Group please contact us at eugene@crosslinkcares.org or find Eugene Chalwe.

 Director of Life Groups- Eugene Chalwe

Director of Life Groups- Eugene Chalwe

If you are interested in joining a Life Group then fill out the following form and someone will be
contacting you soon. 

New Life Groups

Healing In Confession Life Group
Leader: Steven and Charlotte Lail
Day and Time: Tuesdays at 7-8:30pm (Will not meet on May 15).
Area: Bermuda Bay Lane, Mebane
Description: This Life Group is for people, adults and youth, who wish to share/confess their life changing/healing experiences with one another, and use these experiences to help those that are struggling with loss, grief, sin, relationships, in a non-threatening, non-judgmental and loving environment.This group's foundation is based on the following scriptures: 1 John 1:7-10, James 5:16, and Galatians 6:2. 




Mebane Men Life Group
Leader: David Vernon and Alif McFadden
Day and Time: Thursdays at 7pm
Area: Crosslink Community Church
Description: This Life Group is intended to encourage and equip men, through Bible Study and Fellowhsip to take responsibility of their own private lives. The focus areas for the men of this Life Group will be:

  • His walk with God 
  • His relationship with his wife
  • His relationship with his children 
  • His personal finances 
  • His health


Current Life Groups

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Witnessing Disciples Life Group
Leader: Lucas Lloyd
Day and Time: Sundays 3-5pm (Once a month beginning February 11 through May 2018)
Area: Crosslink Community Church in Worship Center
Description: This Life Group is for people who wish to enhance or begin their Christian life as a Witness for Jesus Christ. We will be working through the Biblical Study: "SHARE JESUS WITHOUT FEAR" by William Fay and Ralph Hodge. The cost of the book will be $8.00. The outline of the study will be as follows:

LESSON ONE: Developing a Heart to share Jesus

LESSON TWO: Learning a Way to Share Jesus

LESSON THREE: Responding to the Challenge to Share Jesus

LESSON FOUR: Being Obedient to Share Jesus

The study is designed to direct those witnesses for Christ to confidence in themselves, and within their own personalities, so others may come to know Jesus Christ. For any questions about the group contact Lucas Lloyd directly at 919-568-9014.


Divorce Care Group
Leader: Rhonda Melton
Day and Time: Thursday Night
Area: Mebane
Description: Divorce Care is friendly, caring group of people who will walk alongside you through one of life's most difficult experiences by using biblical truths. Don't go through separation or divorce alone. Meet with others that have walked the same path, have experienced the same thing, and have found healing. 

You can visit the website DivorceCare - Divorce Recovery Support Groups - DivorceCare to find out more information. It was created by a church in NC, has lots of top experts on divorce and recovery, it continually promotes reconciliation of the marriage, but talks about how to move on and live for God if that is not an option.

Physical and Spiritual Wellness Group
Leader: Tim Grap, Jack and Jackie Mignosa
Day and Time: Saturday Mornings - Times will vary
Area: Mebane
Description: spiritual physical wellness life  group. We will have prayer, work out and Bible study and healthy life style tips. the meeting will start with prayer followed by 45 minutes of exercising. Then we come back and do a 10 to 15 minute devotion with prayer requests and a closing prayer. We want to pour into each other as we work on our spiritual walk with the Lord and our physical well-being. We are not here to judge. We are here to support each other and to love one another. We will be incorporating the kids as well at some point. This is for couples, singles, anybody that wants to come and at any level of fitness.  We will be doing separate classes at times for cooking and eating healthier. There is no cost. You will need to bring your own mat and drink, and that is it. 

Women Life Group
Leader: Weezie Bryan
Day and Time: No Summer Trimester - Joining a Study with Women's Ministry
Location: Mebane
Description: This life group is an opportunity for women of all ages to study God's Word and to fellowship together in a small group. There will be an emphasis on single women, widows, and women without children, many of whom are often ignored within the church.


Vernon Life Group
Leader: David and Heather Vernon
Day and Time: Tuesday, 6:30pm
Location: Mebane
Description: A small group of fellow believers in Christ, studying God's word and how it can be applicable to our life today. We discuss the current sermon along with various authors from "Right Now Media". Will be doing the "Bridges Study" starting May 2018.


Green and Wisdo Life Group
Leaders: Nancy Green, Ken Green
Day and Time: Thursday's 6-7:30 pm
Location: Mebane
Description: This is a 50 and older life group. We will be having food, devotion and fellowship. Focusing on prayer requests/needs, praise and building friendships.


Smith Life Group
Leader: Matt Smith
Day and Time: Starting in May every Thursday's at 7pm.
Area: Mebane area near Tanger Outlets.

Description: Targeted towards single parents/adults. We will be incorporating and studying Apologetic/Christian Worldview material into our everyday lives.


Goad Family Life Group
Leader: Brian and Valerie Goad
Day and Time: In a home or community park on Sunday afternoons
Area: Mebane
Description: We are geared to young couples and families with children.  We will be studying the sermon applications with a focus on family.


Brown Life Group
Leaders: Dan and Heather Brown
Day and Time: Tuesday, 7:00-8:30 pm
Area: Mebane
Description: This Life Group focuses on studying the Scripture and living out the Gospel by loving others. 


Davis Life Group
Leaders: Lee and Amanda Davis
Day and Time: Wednesday, 6:30-8:30 pm
Area: Crosslink Office, Mebane
Description: Although this Life Group consists of those who are involved in the worship, multi media, sound and lighting teams, it is not exclusive and is open to anyone who wants to grow in their faith and build friendships. After a time of food, fellowship and Bible Study, the worship team will rehearse for the upcoming Sunday. 


Harvest Life Group
Leaders: Diane Duecker and Betty Harris
Day: 2nd and 4th Wednesday. 3:30-4:30 pm
Area: Crosslink Office, Mebane
Description: Come join us as we pray for lost souls in our families, community and world. We'll be the intercessors that will labor to bring about a great harvest. We will glorify God with praise, worship, praying for the lost, and studying the Bible.

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All Creatures Great and Small
Leader: Bobby and Becky Patton
Day and Time: Starts Thursday, May 3rd, 6-7.30pm
Area: Efland
Description: Will work with one species per week to study the stewardship that God has bestowed on us. Ages 6 and up, and parents are welcome to attend. Up to eight participants.



Chalwe Life Group

Leader: Eugene and Katrina Chalwe
Day and Time: Wednesday's at 7pm.
Area: Crosslink Community Church Kid's area
Description: Unpacking Sunday sermons, using scripture to grow spiritually in Jesus Christ, and applying scripture to everyday life situations. Everyone is welcome, including families with children.



Lloyd Life Group
Leaders: Lucas and Shari Lloyd
Day and Time: Wednesdays 11:00 am to 12:30 pm (starts August) 
Area: Crosslink Community Church Worship Center
Description: This is a "50 and older" Life Group. We will diving into The Book of James on RightNow Media. There will be 12 Lessons developed by Francis Chan. 

Missional Community Life Group
Leaders: Jason and Charity Palmer
Day and Time: Tuesday, 7-8:30 pm
Area: This Life Group transitions between Orange and Alamance County.
Description: This Life Group focuses on missional living through loving God and people as seen in studying Scripture and sharing life's experiences.

Prayer Team
Leader: Dan Bivins
Day and Time: Wednesday, 2:00-3:00 pm
Area: Mebane
Description: The Prayer Team focuses on praying for the needs of people both locally and globally.


Tilley Life Group
Leader: Ken Tilley
Day and Time: Friday, 7:00 am
Area: Hardees in Hillsborough
Description: Will be going through the book "A Praying Life" by Paul Miller.

Prayer is so hard that unless circumstances demand it - an illness, or saying grace at a meal - most of us simply do not pray. We prize accomplishments and productivity over time in prayer. Even Christians experience this prayerlessness - a kind of practical unbelief that leaves us marked by fear, anxiety, joylessness, and spiritual lethargy.

Prayer is all about relationship. Based on the popular seminar by the same name, A Praying Life has discipled thousands of Christians to a vibrant prayer life full of joy and power. When Jesus describes the intimacy He seeks with us, He talks about joining us for dinner (Revelation 3:20). A Praying Life feels like having dinner with good friends. It is the way we experience and connect to God. In A Praying Life, author Paul Miller lays out a pattern for living in relationship with God and includes helpful habits and approaches to prayer that enable us to return to a childlike faith. 

If you join this group please pick up the book before we meet.